The High Price of “I’m Fine” (and Other Retired Phrases in the Chronic Illness Vocabulary)
Some phrases stopped working the moment my body did. Here’s the vocabulary I’ve quietly retired โ and what I actually mean now.
Some phrases stopped working the moment my body did. Here’s the vocabulary I’ve quietly retired โ and what I actually mean now.
The internet will hand you a firehose of recommendations when youโre newly diagnosed. This is not that. This is what actually lives on my nightstand.
Iโm sitting on the edge of my bed. My feet are on the floor. My eyes are open. And I cannot stand up yet.
Your autonomic nervous system runs everything you never have to think about โ heart rate, blood pressure, digestion, temperature. Mine decided to stop cooperating. Hereโs what that actually means.
I fainted under a church pew at nine years old. My mom thought I was acting up. That was just the beginning of a very long conversation between my body and the medical system โ one where I did most of the talking and nobody listened.